Drunk Driving Is Not an Accident, It Is a Choice!
Cari Lightner was only 13 when she was struck and killed by a repeat offender drunk driver in 1980. She was thrown 125 feet and left in the road to die. The driver went home, passed out, and told his wife not to look at her car, which he had been driving because he had crashed his own car into someone else the night before he killed Cari.
When the police caught up with him, he was charged with 3 felonies under California law: felony drunk driving, felony hit and run, and felony vehicular manslaughter. Despite these charges and his prior offenses, he only spent 16 months in a halfway house. He even maintained his driver’s license, driving to and from work and home on the weekends. The only reason the driver spent any time semi-incarcerated at all is because Cari’s mother, Candace Lightner, launched Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD), an anti-drunk driving grassroots movement that took the nation by storm. This movement also generated widespread public outrage against drunk driving that directly resulted in many changes.
In 1980, drunk driving was socially acceptable and more than 25,000 people each year were being killed in alcohol-related crashes. Since then, all 50 states have enacted laws with tougher sanctions for drunk drivers, and the number of drunk driving deaths has been cut in half.
The Deadly Threat of Repeat Drunk Drivers
Rosenda “Rose” Elizabeth Smiley was miraculously born on December 5, 2009. On May 25, 2024, her life was stolen by a repeat drunk driver as she walked through a marked crosswalk with her friend, Sarah, and her stepsister, Alexa. Traffic had stopped, as required, to allow them to cross. The drunk driver chose to bypass the stopped cars, drove through the crosswalk, and struck Rose, killing her instantly. Sarah was injured. The driver’s 8‑year‑old daughter was in the car at the time.
This driver had two prior impaired‑driving convictions — one DUI and one that was pled down to reckless driving after another crash. Both times, he received the Watson Advisement.
In California, a Watson Advisement is given after a first and every subsequent DUI conviction. It formally warns the driver that they understand if they drive under the influence again and someone is killed, they can be charged with murder.
Just one month before killing Rose, he had been released from probation. His license had been suspended; he had just gotten it back and had recently purchased a new car. He is now charged with Watson Murder, felony DUI, felony child endangerment, and vehicular assault for injuring Sarah. As of now, his case has not yet gone to trial.
Rose traveled the world, loved to laugh, and embraced every opportunity for joy. She believed deeply in fairness and justice — for both animals and people. She was intelligent, spirited, sweet, funny, beautiful, and witty, with a sharp tongue. Her laughter was contagious, and her smile was like sunshine.
Rose should still be here.
Her story is a devastating reminder that repeat drunk driving is not an “accident” waiting to happen — it is a predictable, preventable crime. We share Rose’s story to honor her life and to fight for stronger laws, real accountability for repeat offenders, and a culture where no one ever again has to lose someone they love to a drunk driver.
Drunk Driving: Progress and Ongoing Challenges
Have We Solved the Problem?
While we’ve made substantial legal and societal progress since 1980, the battle against drunk driving is far from over. A recent study revealed that 43% of Americans admit to driving under the influence of alcohol — 56% of men compared to 29% of women. Alarmingly, drunk drivers still claim more than 10,000 lives annually, a figure that has remained steady since 1996.
Moreover, a 2020 study found that drivers involved in fatal crashes while impaired by alcohol were four times more likely to have prior DUI convictions. This indicates a troubling pattern: Many individuals continue to drive under the influence, even after being caught, often with tragic consequences.
What Can We Do About Drunk Driving?
It is clear that more must be done to stop drunk drivers — especially repeat offenders. Here are practical, evidence‑based ways we can protect ourselves and our loved ones.
- Stronger Enforcement on the Roads
- Expand and fund high‑visibility sobriety checkpoints and saturation patrols.
- Use passive alcohol sensors and mobile breath‑testing equipment so officers can spot impaired drivers more effectively.
- Mandatory Alcohol Screening and Treatment
- Require alcohol use assessments for all DUI offenders, not just high‑BAC or repeat cases.
- Mandate evidence‑based treatment and counseling, with monitoring and follow‑up, as part of sentencing.
- Integrate mental health and substance use services, recognizing that many repeat offenders struggle with addiction and other underlying issues.
- License and Vehicle‑Based Sanctions
- Use vehicle impoundment or immobilization for repeat and high‑risk offenders who drive on suspended licenses.
- Strengthen penalties for driving without an ignition interlock or for using someone else’s car to avoid monitoring.
- Require SR‑22 insurance filings (proof of financial responsibility) for longer periods after a DUI.
- Safer Vehicles Through Technology
- Advocate for rapid federal implementation of advanced impaired‑driving prevention technology in all new vehicles, as called for in federal law.
- Encourage automakers and tech companies to pilot in‑car driver monitoring systems that detect impairment or inattention and can intervene.
- Safe Transportation Alternatives
- Support late‑night public transit, safe‑ride programs, and rideshare partnerships that provide discounted or free rides during high‑risk times (weekends, holidays, big events).
- Encourage bars, restaurants, and event venues to:
- Promote designated driver programs
- Offer free non‑alcoholic drinks to designated drivers
- Post clear “Don’t Drink and Drive” messages and ride‑option information
- Responsible Alcohol Service and Sales
- Require or expand Responsible Beverage Service (RBS) training for bartenders, servers, and retailers.
- Enforce overservice laws so establishments can be held accountable for serving clearly intoxicated patrons who later drive.
- Crack down on underage sales and fake IDs.
- Consider limits on extreme drink promotions (like “all you can drink” specials) that encourage excessive consumption.
- Education and Culture Change
- Run evidence‑based public education campaigns that emphasize:
- The real, human consequences of impaired driving
- That “buzzed” driving is drunk driving
- Simple alternatives: planning ahead, using rideshare, staying overnight
- Integrate drunk‑driving prevention into school curricula, driver’s education, and workplace safety programs
- Partner with influencers, athletes, and community leaders to make planning a sober ride a normal part of any night out
- Run evidence‑based public education campaigns that emphasize:
- Employer and Community Policies
- Encourage employers to:
- Ban driving for work while impaired
- Offer Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) that address alcohol use
- Provide safe ride options after company events involving alcohol
- Work with colleges, military bases, and large campuses to adopt alcohol and transportation policies that reduce impaired driving among young adults
- Encourage employers to:
- Better Data and Fair, Effective Penalties
- Push for stronger data collection on alcohol‑related crashes and repeat offenders, so we can target what works and adjust what doesn’t.
- Advocate for swift, certain, and fair penalties that hold people accountable while focusing on changing behavior, not just punishment.
Together, these strategies can save lives and move us toward a culture where no one drives impaired — ever.
Tips to Keep You and Your Loved Ones Safe:
- Offer to be a designated driver or ensure you have a non-drinking designated driver when you go out.
- If you are going out alone, don’t drink unless you take a taxi or public transit there and plan on doing the same when you are going home.
- Give your keys to someone else before you start drinking.
- Download a taxi app.
- If you are partying at a friend’s home, stay overnight if you aren’t sober.
- Never ride with someone who is drinking or has been drinking.
- Keep someone overnight if they drink too much at your party or call them a ride.
- Never serve alcohol to underage guests.
- Set up a social media post to all your followers that you will not ride with anyone who has been drinking. #PassengerSpeakUp
- Post on social media the local cab company’s number for your friends with a message that says, “I care and want you to make it home safely: Please call a cab if you go out drinking!”
- Always plan ahead. It is better to make plans before you go out than it is to deal with the possible deadly consequences after.
- Check in with friends before they leave. Make sure everyone has a safe way home and that no one who has been drinking plans to drive.
- Offer your couch or a safe place to stay. Let friends know ahead of time that they are always welcome to stay over if they shouldn’t drive.
- Speak up early. If you notice someone starting to overdo it, encourage them to slow down, drink water, and plan for a safe ride home before it becomes a dangerous situation.